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"A skin fade on the sides to take the bulk off, and keep textured length on top — don't leave the sides heavy."

Men's haircut preview
Yes — a skin fade is one of the best cuts for thick hair. Thick hair gets heavy and bushy on the sides; taking it down to skin removes that bulk and puts all the weight up top where you want it. The result is sharp and far easier to manage. Here's the version to ask for, and how to see it first.
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What to ask your barber
"A skin fade on the sides to take the bulk off, and keep textured length on top — don't leave the sides heavy."
A preview is a direction for the barber, not a guarantee — but it beats pointing at a stranger with different hair.
A bad fade is £25 and three weeks growing it out. A preview is about a quid.
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